Unfortunately, no. At least not if you’re only using Glide tables. There was a bit of excitement when the API Column was released into staging a few months ago, but that appears to have been shelved.
If you’re using GSheets, then there are tricks that can be employed to address race conditions. This is something I’ve had to deal with recently, and I described the approach we took here
Essentially, we did as you suggested, which was to use an intermediary (in this case, Integromat) as an indirect arbitrator.