Sorry, I don’t have any really good suggestions, but one thing you could do is move the components to an edit form that is opened with a slide in overlay. When a user wants to change the filters they would click a button to open the edit form, make their changes, and submit the form. This wouldn’t eliminate updates but it would reduce them a little bit.
I know this is something a lot of us have asked for because we use user specific columns a lot just for navigation, custom forms, filtering, or just general temporary local storage. This is a request that I created a while back that I would love to see happen, but I don’t know if it ever will.