# My dating app

**URL:** https://community.glideapps.com/t/my-dating-app/16636
**Category:** Project Showcase
**Created:** [October 1, 2020, 11:17pm UTC](https://community.glideapps.com/t/my-dating-app/16636 "2020-10-01T23:17:36Z")
**Posts on this page:** 5
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### Author: ![Bahadir\_Kaya](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/user_avatar/community.glideapps.com/bahadir_kaya/32/14065_2.png) [@Bahadir\_Kaya](https://community.glideapps.com/u/Bahadir_Kaya)
#### Post date: [October 1, 2020, 11:17pm UTC](https://community.glideapps.com/t/my-dating-app/16636/1 "2020-10-01T23:17:36Z")

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Hello all,

Most of people looks for dating apps 🙂 I just prepared a dating app.

People can show user list by matching hobies.

For example you are ok about basketball. You can see basketball lovers: )

 ![image](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/uploads/glideapps/original/2X/9/9f223a41d21016cd177f04ad91bfdaba250555e5.jpeg)  
I put a make a chat

After you click user chat

 ![image](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/uploads/glideapps/original/2X/e/e25b0f1eb4a984dd954f62ed97f2c1f53c6e82e1.jpeg)

Message list updates and if your goal people accept you, you can talk with uniq chat id

But the problem is when you click button it sends a request always. My talks section shows more than 1 time if people click button more than 1 time.

I should close button if he sent request already

or

I should show same requests 1 in talk section.

How can I do that?

 ![image](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/uploads/glideapps/original/2X/4/491366f71215af1deb877821be4570c2d735ace9.png)  
 ![image](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/uploads/glideapps/original/2X/2/2a18ff0cfbfaa9cf9118b10d4ff0bf6fa01a02da.png)

I made a template for mix user 1 and user 2 in match sheet

I make relation with this template in users list 2 times. Being talk or wanted talk (Multiple)

I have multiple relations that show user is wanted by who with this

 ![image](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/uploads/glideapps/original/2X/7/764d39369e773a1b8798d4a42109930b6e365d25.png)

But I can not convert this multiple list to joined list in same page. I made if i can choose filter of button as listthatwant doesnt includes user email he will not see. But filter section is not working includes with lookups.

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### Author: ![Jeff\_Hager](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/user_avatar/community.glideapps.com/jeff_hager/32/43_2.png) [@Jeff\_Hager](https://community.glideapps.com/u/Jeff_Hager)
#### Post date: [October 2, 2020, 12:15am UTC](https://community.glideapps.com/t/my-dating-app/16636/2 "2020-10-02T00:15:26Z")

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Assuming you already have a relation set up (on the sheet that contains the form button to start request a chat), you can set a visibility condition to only show the button if the relation is empty. Meaning if a chat request doesn’t exist, then the button will show.

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### Author: ![ThinhDinh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/user_avatar/community.glideapps.com/thinhdinh/32/49_2.png) [@ThinhDinh](https://community.glideapps.com/u/ThinhDinh)
#### Post date: [October 2, 2020, 12:56am UTC](https://community.glideapps.com/t/my-dating-app/16636/3 "2020-10-02T00:56:26Z")

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And show that relation in the profile view so that links straight to the chat.

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### Author: ![Bahadir\_Kaya](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/user_avatar/community.glideapps.com/bahadir_kaya/32/14065_2.png) [@Bahadir\_Kaya](https://community.glideapps.com/u/Bahadir_Kaya)
#### Post date: [October 2, 2020, 8:30am UTC](https://community.glideapps.com/t/my-dating-app/16636/4 "2020-10-02T08:30:06Z")

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I have a list. That users want to talk with who

 ![image](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/uploads/glideapps/original/2X/9/925e47bdc1b010371c2aa92c98071396cd5397c4.png)

But I can not use include section in button.

 ![image](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/uploads/glideapps/original/2X/c/ca064329b1c08d9362478e3e781959e18d93fa50.jpeg)

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### Author: ![ThinhDinh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex002/user_avatar/community.glideapps.com/thinhdinh/32/49_2.png) [@ThinhDinh](https://community.glideapps.com/u/ThinhDinh)
#### Post date: [October 2, 2020, 8:55am UTC](https://community.glideapps.com/t/my-dating-app/16636/5 "2020-10-02T08:55:49Z")

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I think you can use a joined list column and then filter by is included using that column.